Everything about Chaste totally explained
Chastity refers to
sexual behavior of a man or woman acceptable to the
ethical norms and guidelines of a certain culture, civilization or
religion.
In the western world, the term has become closely associated (and is often used interchangeably) with
sexual abstinence, especially
before marriage, due to the restriction of sexual relations to marriage deriving from the
Ten Commandments. However, the term remains applicable to persons in all states, single or married, clerical or lay, and has implications beyond sexual temperance.
Placed opposite the
deadly sin of
lust, Chastity has been classified as one of
Seven virtues.
From Unmarried to Married
Assuming the observance of chastity, chastity is of particular relevance to the transition from unmarried to married status (here
marriage is meant in the common heterosexual sense, not in the sense of
spiritual marriage). Broadly, there are two approaches:
courtship and
arranged marriage.
Different cultures have implemented chastity in different ways. From the weak to the strong: Some take no objection to courtship or even casual sexual relationships. Some have implemented chastity with a
double standard. Others have taken the view that marriages should be arranged and that any behavior which could be construed as courtship is taboo.
Antiquity
In ancient times the value of chastity was highly debated in both the
homosexual and
heterosexual spheres. In particular,
Socrates was an advocate of chaste
pedagogic relations between men and boys, in opposition to the sexually expressed
pederastic relations relationships prevalent in his time.
Plato, having transmitted many of these teachings, has become the eponym for this type of chastity, known today as
Platonic love (as opposed to
romantic love,
parental love,
sibling love, etc.).
"Grant me chastity and continence, but not yet." (Da mihi castitatem et continentiam, sed noli modo.) -
Saint Augustine
In Abrahamic religions
In Jewish, Christian and Islamic ethical contexts, acts of sexual nature are restricted to the context of marriage. For unmarried persons therefore, chastity is identified with
sexual abstinence. Sexual acts outside or apart from marriage, such as
adultery,
fornication and
prostitution, are considered
sinful.
In the context of
marriage, the spouses commit to a lifelong relationship which excludes the possibility of sexual intimacy with other persons. Chastity therefore involves marital fidelity and often a
procreative intent. Within marriage, several practices are variedly considered unchaste, such as sexual intimacy during or shortly after
menstruation or
childbirth.
The particular ethical system may not prescribe each of these. For example, within the scope of
Christian ethic,
Roman Catholics view sex within marriage as chaste, but prohibit the use of artificial contraception as an offense against chastity, seeing contraception as contrary to God's will and design of human sexuality. Many
Anglican churches allow for artificial contraception, seeing the restriction of family size as possibly not contrary to God's will. A stricter view is held by the
Shakers, who prohibit marriage (and indeed sexual intercourse under any circumstances) as a violation of chastity.
Some Christian denominations, such as the Roman Catholic or
Eastern Orthodox Churches, have set up various rules regarding
clerical celibacy, while others, such as
Lutheran and Anglican churches, allow clergy to marry or even favour it.
In all Christian traditions, celibacy is required of
monastics—monks, nuns and friars—even in a rare system of
double cloisters, in which husbands could enter the (men's) monastery while their wives entered a (women's) sister monastery.
Vows of chastity can also be taken by laypersons, either as part of an organised religious life (such as Roman Catholic
Beguines and Beghards) or on an individual basis, as a voluntary act of devotion and/or as part of an ascetic lifestyle, often devoted to
contemplation. The voluntary aspect has led it to being included among the
counsels of perfection.
Clothing
Acts which transgress chastity are usually intended to be a private matter. The main exception to this norm is the style of
clothing worn because clothing can be used to broadcast a person's receptiveness to sexual advances. For this reason, cultures which attempt to foster chastity employ a
modest style of dress, especially for women.
Style of dress may be chosen for other reasons than chastity such as the desire to express one's individual identity, to conform to societal norms, for
advertising a product, or for other reasons.
This is especially significant for
virgins who may be influenced toward conceiving of sex separately from marriage instead of as an integrated part of marriage. See
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